Tuesday
In Matthew 18:15-17, Jesus gives us a brief but clear
teaching on how we are to handle confronting a fellow Christian about their
sinful behavior (see yesterday’s devotion). However, just before this teaching, Jesus tells a parable
about how God pursues His lost and wandering sheep.
“See that you do not look down on one of these little
ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my
Father in heaven. “What do you
think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not
leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered
off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one
sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven
is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.
– Matthew
18:10-14
What does this story have to do with the teaching on how
to confront a brother or sister in sin?
Most of us tend to think about this parable of the lost sheep in terms
of those who are not yet “saved”, or non-Christians. Certainly God desires to save lost people through
Christ. However, to be “lost”,
simply means to be in the wrong place.
In this sense, it is also possible for believers to be in the wrong
place spiritually even though they may be saved.
Notice that in His parable, Jesus is describing a shepherd
who goes in search of one of his sheep that has wandered off. When we wander into sinful behaviors,
we are certainly in the wrong place (lost), and we need to be brought back to
our Shepherd. The Bible clearly
indicates that God pursues us in order to save us, and He continues to pursue
us when we wander from Him. The
question is how? How does God
pursue his wandering sheep? The
answer is of course that God pursues us in many different ways. Sometimes God pursues us through the
conviction of His Word. Sometimes
God pursues us through the quiet, inner voice of the Holy Spirit. Sometimes God uses our external
circumstances to wake us up to our need for Him. However, one of the primary ways in which God pursues us
when we wander is through each other!
This is why Jesus follows His story about the lost sheep with a clear
teaching on how to go after a brother or sister who wanders into sin.
It is all too easy to think of confrontation as either a
means of getting even with someone who has wronged us, or as something
difficult and messy and to be avoided altogether. Jesus is teaching us that when a brother or sister sins
against us, it is because they have wandered away from Him, and He wants to use
us to help bring them back to Him – what an incredible privilege! If there is someone in your life that
you feel God is calling you to confront because of their sin, remember, it is
because He loves His sheep and He may use you to ring them back to Him!
This concept of the offended person pursuing the offender
is at the very heart of the gospel!
Jesus (the one we have all offended) has pursued us (the offenders) all
the way to the cross! One of my
favorite hymns of all time is “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing”. This hymn beautifully captures the wandering
nature of our hearts and the pursuing love of Christ.
Jesus sought me when a
stranger,
Wandering from the fold of
God;
He, to rescue me from
danger,
Interposed His precious
blood;
How His kindness yet pursues
me
Mortal tongue can never
tell,
Clothed in flesh, till death
shall loose me
I cannot proclaim it well.
O to grace how
great a debtor
Daily I’m
constrained to be!
Let Thy
goodness, like a fetter,
Bind my
wandering heart to Thee.
Prone to
wander, Lord, I feel it,
Prone to leave
the God I love;
Here’s my heart, O take and
seal it,
Seal it for Thy courts
above.
Jeff Frazier
1 comment:
Somehow it is a new concept to think of the confrontation verse being linked to the lost sheep - thank you. It makes sense! Love the hymn. Prone to wander, Lord I feel it. Probably key to being successful when we confront our brother or sister is remembering our own wander-lust. We are all in the same boat, if we remember that to the One we have all offended, all sin looks just as black. The hardest thing for me to do is to confront a CHILD of mine, and correct him/her, knowing full well that I did the same thing in my youth or am still struggling with something like it now! :P
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